Trust..

is a difficult word. Hard to build, easy peasy to destroy. I hope I'll never have this problem.

I trusted e 5 of you. However, you all gave the same excuse - that you did not want to hurt me. Don't you think that I would fall harder when I finally learnt the truth? Yes, it is not nice being the one to break bad news. You would feel embarrassed and sorry, coupled with the fear of spoiling my 'happiness'.

Do you think I will be happy with this kind of man in the long run? Why didn't the 5 of you warn me, inform me, protect me? I truly understand your points of view. I hope the 5 of you see mine.

And you. You have displaced my trust in you. I have misplaced my faith and happiness in you. You told me you wanted to change. Now I thoroughly regret inviting you when I went out with my friends.

Nothing, nothing on earth, ever warrants you the right to cheat in the relationship. You do not see me getting upset, then running to find your friends for sexual favours, or sexually harass them. You need to wiki 'sexual harassment', and remember that it is disrespectful to do it.

Having the thing between your legs does not make you privvy to insulting women, cheat on them, nor harass them sexually.

For goodness' sake, you had the audacity to touch her when I was sitting in the very same car as you! I have been with you through thick and thin - your months without a job, the tattoo, the wedding, your saturday games - with no complaints. I did not pressure you.

Even if it were my mood swings, go figure. It's called pms. Every female is entitled to it. We can't help it. Some may even have it worse. And it was only periodically. I know I'm not perfect, but do you think you are? I am your gf, not your maid. I am a woman, sleeping in your bed while you did all these without guilt, not a fall-back plan. So what did I do to deserve this? Did I owe you in a past life? Have you returned to haunt me? No. Not by my God.

You would have been the perfect, sweet, caring bf - I appreciate and did not take for granted all the nice little things you have done for me during our relationship - but you spoilt it all with your own hands as well - trying to hit on my friends.

I was not blind to it. I honestly did not know. I'm angry because you harassed my friends. Now I know why you refused to say who you had 'disturbed' - it was almost ALL whom you've met before, wasn't it? Yes, I've done my detective work. The current stats stand at 5 out of 7 of my girl friends who were verbally sexually harassed by you. 5!! Is it not a basic understanding that your gf's or bf's friends are UNtouchables, unless you aren't in the relationship anymore?

I am lucky my 5 girls stood by me. Appreciate C for telling me. Thanks L and D for coming clean. Thanks to S and S for supporting me. I will not wish you karma, for I am not evil. I just hope you learn to respect and cherish women one day.